Can I get a restraining order against my ex-husband for contacting me?

Full question:

Can I file a restraining order on my ex-husband of over two years for calling me and text messaging me? I've asked him several times in the past to leave me alone unless it involves an emergency with our teenage children which he has custody. He is causing me alot of stress. What can I do?

  • Category: Criminal
  • Subcategory: Harassment
  • Date:
  • State: Illinois

Answer:

You may be able to file a restraining order if your ex-husband's calls and texts constitute harassment or threats. However, if he is contacting you regarding your children or is not being harassing, it may not be grounds for a restraining order. As the mother and former wife, and he the father and former husband, communication is often necessary for co-parenting, especially for the benefit of your children. Not communicating could even affect custody arrangements. If he is being disrespectful, consider discussing your concerns with him directly.

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FAQs

Yes, restraining orders can cover phone calls if they are deemed harassing or threatening. If the calls cause you distress or fear for your safety, you may have grounds to include them in your restraining order request. However, if the calls are related to co-parenting and are not threatening, it may not qualify for a restraining order.