What legal actions can I take against my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend?

Full question:

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend pushes her way into our home when she comes to pick up her 14 year old son. She's been asked repeatedly to call ahead so the boy can be sent out to meet her, of course she ignores this request. When she pushes past my boyfriend he can't prevent it because he doesn't want to be charged with battery. We moved into a development with some kind of security which requires a card to enter the premises,but she just comes in when another resident enters.Also, when we're not home she goes in our room and steals our belongings or cuts ourbelongings up.On February 6, she scratched up my car.It's been 3 years since their breakup, but she refuses to go on her way.Is there any legal recourse against her insane behavior?

Answer:

You may have legal options to address her behavior, such as seeking a restraining order. A restraining order is a court order designed to protect individuals from harassment or violence. In Florida, you can file a petition for an injunction for protection against domestic violence if you believe you are a victim or at risk of domestic violence (Fla. Stat. § 741.30). This petition can be filed regardless of whether there are other legal actions pending between you and the respondent.

To obtain a restraining order, you would need to demonstrate to the court that you are facing harassment or imminent danger. The court may issue a temporary injunction, which can provide immediate protection, and a full hearing will be scheduled to determine if a longer-term injunction is necessary.

If you decide to pursue this route, you can file the petition in the circuit court where you live or where the harassment occurred. The clerk of the court can assist you in the process and provide the necessary forms. It's important to document any incidents of harassment or theft, as this evidence can support your case.

For further assistance, consider consulting with a legal professional who can guide you through the process and help ensure your rights are protected.

This content is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Legal statutes mentioned reflect the law at the time the content was written and may no longer be current. Always verify the latest version of the law before relying on it.

FAQs

Signs that your partner may still be stuck on their ex include frequently talking about them, comparing you to them, or showing emotional distress when their ex is mentioned. If they maintain close contact or seem to prioritize their ex's feelings over yours, it may indicate unresolved feelings. Open communication is key; discussing your concerns can help clarify their feelings.