Can We Tell an Adult to Stay Away from Our Teenager?

Full question:

Our 22 year old tutor (male) wants to have a relationship (not sexual) with our 17 year old daughter. This is in California and we DO NOT approve. Can we tell him, sternly, to go away?

  • Category: Minors
  • Date:
  • State: California

Answer:

There is no law against an adult male having a platonic relationship with a minor. Nor is there a law against a parent warning an adult to stay away from an unemancipated minor if the warning doesn’t involve a threat of physical harm. A restraining order may be issued to a person who is a victim of harassment. A restraining order is a court document that is an order signed by a judge. The restraining order may expire by statute or remain in effect until vacated by the court. The order may or may not be issued ex parte, or without both parties to the order present. In certain cases, a judge may require testimony by both sides before issuing a restraining order

A hearing is typically held in which the person requesting the restraining order must prove their need for the order by the greater weight of the evidence. The person sought to be restrained (defendant) may present evidence to counter the allegations made.

This content is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Legal statutes mentioned reflect the law at the time the content was written and may no longer be current. Always verify the latest version of the law before relying on it.

FAQs

The 16 21 rule in California refers to a legal guideline regarding relationships between minors and adults. It states that individuals aged 16 or older can legally consent to sexual activity with someone who is less than 10 years older. This means that a 16-year-old can engage with someone who is up to 26 years old without it being considered statutory rape. However, this rule does not apply to non-sexual relationships, and parents can still set boundaries regarding their children's interactions with adults.