Can I prevent my 16-year-old son from living with friends this summer?

Full question:

My son is 16 and wants to live with a couple of 18 year old friends for the summer. I don't want him to do this, but I'm afraid he's rebellious enough that he will go whether he has permission or not. He is a good kid but does not get along with his father very well. He says he will come home to go back to school in the fall. These friends live in a house about 15 miles from our home. My son has a job and can probably support himself, although not well. The friends seem to be good kids, but I'm still concerned. Any advice would be welcomed.

  • Category: Minors
  • Date:
  • State: Idaho

Answer:

As a parent and legal guardian, you have the authority to make decisions for your minor child. This situation is challenging, and opinions on how to handle it may vary. Some parents would choose to exercise their authority and prevent their child from going, while others might allow the experience. It's important to consider that a minor's safety may be at risk when they are away from parental supervision, especially if no other responsible adults are present. However, some may argue that gaining independence can be beneficial for a young person. Ultimately, you have the legal right to make this decision, as your son is still a minor.

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FAQs

Dealing with a rebellious 16-year-old can be challenging. It's important to maintain open communication and establish clear boundaries. Try to understand their perspective and involve them in decision-making. Setting consequences for actions can help, but ensure they are fair and consistent. Encouraging positive activities, such as sports or hobbies, can also redirect their energy. Remember, patience and understanding are key.