Can I prevent my son from doing something my wife gave him permission to do?

Full question:

I'm married and my wife has told my 15 year old son he can go to Key West and help a friend (he is not a captain) bring a boat up the Atlantic coast. Can I prevent him from doing this?

  • Category: Minors
  • Date:
  • State: Virginia

Answer:

We cannot give legal advice. The following is not a substitute for the advice of a local attorney. But we hope the information will be useful.

This is an interesting question. You could "forbid" your son from leaving, and he might either leave anyway, or accept your decision and stay home. If you physically restrain him, you could be liable for using force to injure or imprison him. If he has his own means of getting where he's going, you can do little. For example if you forbid him from taking your car, and he did, you could report him to the police for theft, and they'd pull him over and bring him back. But if he uses his own resources for the trip, it's hard to see how you can stop him if he is willing to "run away" against your will. There is no law that we can locate that would allow you to lock him up, for example.

 

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If your teenager wants to go on a trip that you disapprove of, you can express your concerns and discuss the reasons behind your feelings. While you can set rules, ultimately, if they are determined to go and have their own means of transportation, it may be difficult to prevent them. Open communication is key, and it may help to find a compromise or alternative solutions.