Mental Health

I LIVE IN THE STATE OF WASHINGTON. MY SON IS IN JAIL AND THE COURT WANTS TO SEND HIM TO PRISON FOR OPENING CARS. ON MAY 5TH 2008 DEPUTY'S FOUND A STOLEN GUN UNDER HIS BED MATTRESS. MY QUESTION IS: WHY DOES MY SON HAVE TO GO TO PRISON IF HE IS DIAGNOSED WITH SCHIZOPHRENIA AND HE HAS BEEN IN AND OUT OF THE HOSPITAL? I EVEN WENT TO GET HELP WHEN HE DID NOT TAKE HIS MEDICINE. THEY SAID THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO BECAUSE HE IS 27 YEARS OLD. I CALLED THE POLICE AND SAID THAT HE WAS ARGUING WITH HUSBAND AND OTHER THINGS . THE POLICE TOOK HIM TO JAIL AND TO THE MENTAL HOSPITAL AND HE HIS BACK IN HIS MEDICINE. NOW, THE JUDGE SAID THAT HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING. I AM ONE OF 12 KIDS AND SCHIZOPHRENIA RUNS IN THE FAMILY, 2 OF MY BROTHERS AND 1 SISTER WITH MENTAL ILLNESS. WHY DOES MY SON HAS TO GO TO PRISON?

I made a private statement to my sister and she made it public knowledge. I never want to hurt anybody and by her disclosing this information and telling this at my new place of employment and telling my new boss personal and private information about me, I am harassed in and out if work and can not leave my house without people knowing who I am and knowing my most deepest thoughts. This has destroyed my life and I am at the point where I have to leave my home and/or start killing or suing for personal damages and invasion of privacy.

Will a husband be legally liable if he does not seek help for his wife who, to his knowledge, has a problem of controlling her anger?

I was told that I need to get a form that has the words mental health in the title to use for naming my husband as the agent to object to which medical facility I should or should not go to, should the courts get involved.Would you tell me which form I need and the link that I can find it on.

I would like to know the exact title of the form I should use when I need to be the agent in determining which facility or if I will allow my spouse to be admitted to a certain mental health facility. We don't want it to be determined by the courts.