I'm recently going through a custody battle. Is it OK to move?

Full question:

I'm recently going through a custody battle, my ex-boyfriend and I. We have 50/50 Placement and custody. We both live in the same town now but i want to move about 60 miles away but in the same state. I would stay at my parents house two days of the week, and I work close by. Is it OK to move?

  • Category: Minors
  • Subcategory: Custody
  • Date:
  • State: Wisconsin

Answer:

Typically, at the time of the divorce, both parents are living in the same town. But it happens sometimes that at some point after the divorce, one parent wants to move away. Often this is because of a job offer. Other times, the party simply wants to return to his or her family. The issue then becomes: can the parent who is staying behind prevent the other party from moving?

If it is the parent who does not have physical custody, there is no issue. That parent may move. Often, visiting arrangements have to be changed, to allow for fewer, but longer, blocks of time. Typically, children visit spouses in other states during winter break and for part of the summer.

However, if the parent who has physical custody wants to move, and the other parent protests, the courts in most states have the authority to decide, on behalf of the children, whether the custodial parent may move.

The courts typically consider the following factors:

Whether the move will improve the child's school or community.
 
Whether the parent's motive was to harm the non-custodial parent.
 
Whether the non-custodial parent's motive in resisting the move is to harm the custodial parent.
 
Whether the non-custodial parent will still be able to have ongoing and significant contact with the child.
 

The nature of the non-custodial parent's contact with the child so far. In cases that denied the move, a consistent theme is that the other parent has spent many hours each week with the child, consistently showed up for all his or her visitations, and established a close, supportive, and loving relationship with the child.

The effect, either way, on the child's contact with grandparents and other people who are important influences in his or her life, as well as contact with the child's native culture.

This content is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Legal statutes mentioned reflect the law at the time the content was written and may no longer be current. Always verify the latest version of the law before relying on it.

FAQs

One of the biggest mistakes in a custody battle is failing to prioritize the child's best interests. Parents may become overly focused on winning the case instead of considering how their actions affect the child. This can lead to alienation from the other parent or ignoring the child's needs. It's crucial to maintain open communication and demonstrate a willingness to cooperate with the other parent to foster a healthy environment for the child.