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Does my in-laws need my permission to have a fundraiser in my late husband's name?

Does my in-laws need my permission to have a fundraiser in my late husband's name?

Q: Do you ever get over the death of your husband?

While the pain of losing a husband may lessen over time, many people do not 'get over' the loss completely. Instead, they learn to live with it, finding ways to remember their loved one while moving forward. Grief can evolve, and healing often involves integrating the loss into one's life rather than forgetting it.

Full question:

My husband died of cancer last year and his parents are dragging things out to the point that not only I but others in the community are getting tired of listening to them. They refuse to let him rest in peace and this is hurting my children. I voiced my opinion and the tables turned to the point that they are hateful to me and the children. They are organizing a "fundraiser" in his name without my permission. Can they do that? I am his next of kin and I have asked them several times to not do this. They have went behind my back and made it very clear that they will do what they want. What can I do and is there a law that states that they have to have my permission?

Category: Civil Rights
Date: 04/07/2025
State: Illinois

Answer:

Generally, there is no law prohibiting a fundraiser on behalf of a deceased person, as long as applicable laws are complied with. For example, there must not be fraud involved, such as inducing donations for a fraudulent purpose. I suggest contacting a local attorney who is familiar with local regulations and laws governing fundraisers.

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FAQs

What does a wife do when her husband dies?

When a husband dies, a wife should take time to grieve and seek support from family and friends. It's important to handle practical matters, such as notifying relevant agencies, managing finances, and making funeral arrangements. She may also need to consider legal issues, like settling the estate and understanding her rights as a widow. Seeking counseling or support groups can be beneficial for emotional healing.

How long does grief last after the death of a husband?

Grief is a personal experience and varies widely among individuals. Some may feel intense sorrow for months or even years, while others may find their grief lessens over time. Factors such as the relationship with the deceased, support systems, and individual coping mechanisms play significant roles. It's important to allow oneself to grieve at their own pace.

How does losing a spouse change you?

Losing a spouse can lead to significant emotional and psychological changes. Many experience feelings of loneliness, anxiety, or depression. It can also alter one's identity and daily routines. Some may find new strengths or perspectives on life, while others may struggle to adapt. Seeking support can help navigate these changes.

What not to do after your spouse dies?

After a spouse dies, it's advisable to avoid making major life decisions immediately, such as selling property or changing jobs. Don't isolate yourself; seek support from friends, family, or professionals. Additionally, avoid suppressing your feelings; allow yourself to grieve. It's also important not to rush into a new relationship before fully processing your loss.