Do I Need to Take a Paternity Test at the Request of an Attorney?

Full question:

I had a child 16 years ago and was unsure of the paternity( between 2 men). I married one of them and he is listed on the birth certificate.I haven't heard from the other since then. I recently received a letter from the attorney of the other man requesting a paternity test. Do I have to do that? What are mine and my son's rights?

  • Category: Paternity
  • Subcategory: DNA Test
  • Date:
  • State: North Carolina

Answer:

Parents are legally obligated to provide their children with all the necessities of life. The failure of parents to marry does not affect their responsibility to support their children. If parents are unmarried and cannot agree upon how much each should contribute toward the support of their children, the courts may decide. A court can order one parent to make specified payments to the other for child support. State laws provide that biological parents make all the decisions involving their children, including education, health care, and religious upbringing. Parents are not required to secure the legal right to make these decisions if they are married and are listed on the child's birth certificate. However, if there is disagreement about who has the right to make these decisions courts can decide.

The answer will depend on whether a court issued an order to have a paternity test conducted. If so, then you could be held in contempt for failure to do so. In most states, a paternity action takes the form of a civil lawsuit. Only certain persons or parties have legal standing to bring a paternity action, including the mother of the child; the mother of an expected child; a man alleging that he is the biological father of a child; a man alleging that he is the biological father of an expected child; the child; a personal representative of the child; the mother and father of a child (a voluntary action filed together); the mother and father of an expected child (a voluntary action filed together); a state social service agency, interceding in cases of child neglect or need; and a prosecutor's office, interceding in cases of child neglect or need. An action for paternity may be filed by the child. In many states, after a child reaches the "age of majority," he has another one to five years to seek the establishment of paternity. Upon the order of a court in North Carolina, if an action to determine parentage is filed and it is determined that a certain individual is the father of the minor child(ren) and that determination contradicts the child's birth certificate, a new birth certificate will be issued reflecting the father as established in the court order.

A court will not automatically order paternity tests simply because a paternity action has been filed. It will review the petition to determine if there is sufficient information contained therein to warrant or justify the compelling of such a test. If the court orders a paternity test, the mother, child, and alleged father will all be tested at a court-designated facility. A court determination of paternity is final, and a copy of the court's order will be needed to establish the child's rights, both present and future.

This content is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Legal statutes mentioned reflect the law at the time the content was written and may no longer be current. Always verify the latest version of the law before relying on it.

FAQs

Yes, you can potentially sue your ex for lying about paternity, but the success of such a lawsuit depends on the specific circumstances. If the lie caused you financial harm or emotional distress, you may have grounds for a claim. However, proving intentional deceit can be challenging. It's advisable to consult with a family law attorney to evaluate your case.