What are my responsibilities as a guardian for my niece and nephew?

Full question:

I have been the guardian for my niece and my nephew since Jun 07 when their mother was killed in a motorcycle accident. I am looking for specific information on my responsibilities/duties as I am working now with my lawyers to file my first accounting. I have taken on a huge role and it has affected my family (I have two young children also) but I am being scrutinized about how much I spend on bday parties and other things. Plus I am not taking any from the kids to perform this role. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

Answer:

As a guardian, you have two main duties: the duty of loyalty and the duty of care. The duty of loyalty means you must act solely in the best interest of your wards (your niece and nephew) and avoid any conflicts of interest. The duty of care requires you to perform your responsibilities competently and thoroughly, following industry standards.

If you fail to meet these duties, you could face a breach of fiduciary duty claim. To establish such a claim, three elements must be present: (1) a relationship of trust where you assume a duty to protect your wards; (2) a breach of that duty; and (3) damages suffered by your wards.

In New Jersey, specific statutes outline your powers and responsibilities as a guardian:

  • N.J.S. 3B:12-51: You have the same powers and responsibilities as a parent, except you're not required to use your own funds for their support.
  • N.J.S. 3B:12-52: You must take reasonable care of their personal effects and can receive money for their support, which should be used for their care and education.
  • N.J.S. 3B:12-42: You must report to the court about the condition of your wards and their estate.

Additionally, you can seek reimbursement for reasonable expenses incurred while caring for them, provided these are agreed upon and reasonable (N.J.S. 3B:12-41).

It's important to document all expenditures and decisions made on behalf of your wards, especially when facing scrutiny. If you have questions about specific expenditures or need legal advice, consult your attorney for guidance.

This content is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Legal statutes mentioned reflect the law at the time the content was written and may no longer be current. Always verify the latest version of the law before relying on it.

FAQs

A parent or guardian is responsible for the care, welfare, and upbringing of a child. This includes providing food, shelter, education, and emotional support. They must act in the child's best interests, making decisions that promote their health and well-being. Additionally, guardians have a duty to protect the child's rights and manage their financial affairs responsibly. In legal terms, they must adhere to the duty of loyalty and duty of care, ensuring that their actions benefit the child without conflicts of interest.