How can we protect my grandson while his mother is in prison?

Full question:

My son's wife is in prison for a drug conviction. They have 5 children together. The oldest child was born before they married and the mother did not list my son as the father, otherwise unknown. What do we need to do to protect my grandson while his mother is in prison? And what steps do we need to take for my son to be listed as the father as he has raised him since he was 4 months of age, he is 14 yr-old?

  • Category: Paternity
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  • State: Texas

Answer:

To protect your grandson while his mother is in prison, your son should establish legal paternity. Unmarried fathers have rights similar to those of married fathers, but they must take steps to be recognized as legal parents.

Your son can be added to the birth certificate by contacting the state Bureau of Vital Statistics. He can acknowledge paternity by signing a written admission or through a court order. If the mother does not agree, your son may need to file a civil lawsuit to establish paternity. This is necessary for him to seek custody or visitation rights.

In many states, only certain parties can initiate a paternity action, including the mother, the alleged father, or the child. Once paternity is established, a court may issue a new birth certificate reflecting your son as the father. Courts will not automatically order paternity tests; they will review the petition first.

For further assistance, consider consulting a family law attorney who can guide you through the process specific to your state.

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FAQs

Yes, you can sue if you find out a child isn't yours, but the grounds for the lawsuit depend on the situation. If you are seeking to establish that you are not the biological father, you may need to file a paternity action in court. This can help clarify parental rights and responsibilities. However, if you have been paying child support or have legal custody, you may also seek to modify or terminate those obligations. It's advisable to consult a family law attorney for guidance specific to your case.