Can we be expected to hold a friend's belongings indefinitely?

Full question:

My fiancee's friend asked if we could hold some of her belongings while she temporarily moved to another state. We were expecting to hold the items for a couple of months, but now she says that she is not coming back. She will not pay for us to ship them to her and she will not pay for a storage center to hold her items. Is she right to expect us to hold her things indefinitely, and if not, what can we do with the items that are cluttering our house?

Answer:

When you agree to hold someone else's property without compensation, it creates a legal relationship called bailment. In this case, since you are not being paid, it is a gratuitous bailment. As the bailee, you must take reasonable care of the property.

If the owner abandons the property, local laws regarding abandoned property apply. These laws vary by location but generally require you to notify the owner at their last known address. The notice should specify a time limit for them to retrieve their items before you can sell or dispose of them.

I recommend contacting your local police department to learn about the specific abandoned property laws in your area.

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FAQs

To tell someone they can't move in with you, be direct and honest. Explain your reasons clearly, whether they are personal, financial, or related to your living situation. It's important to communicate your boundaries respectfully. You can suggest alternative solutions, such as helping them find other housing options. Ensure that your message is clear to avoid misunderstandings.